Say No To Bullying

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Ever wonder why some kiddies today are too afraid to go to school? There could be a lot of reason why your child won’t step out of his room to go to school and one major reason is probably of bullying. It is not uncommon nowadays when you hear about this issue and your kid may actually be a victim of this act or worse, being the bully in his school. Say no to Bullying!

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Not long ago, I never thought that a preschooler could hurt another kid and the idea itself sounded crazy, but when a close friend of mine who’s actually a pre-school teacher in an international school told me about an incident where two of her students quarreled like wild animals, I still didn’t believe it until I saw them with my own eyes. There was this kid crying out loud and he was one of the new kids in school. He was being chased by his classmate who was a girl at about five years old. She kept punching him on his back and the boy was running away from her. When they were sent to the director’s office, her reason was because he had a crush on her and she got really frustrated and told him that if she keeps punching him, his crush for her would go away. As she was explaining her side, she can’t help but laugh and thought that it was a silly joke. The next day the little boy got bruises all over his body and didn’t want to go to school. I thought to myself that they were just preschoolers and yet the violence was already present and though they may not know what they were doing, it was still inexcusable. Kids going to school nowadays is something questionable when it comes to safety measures.

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Another incident was when one of my friends told me about her son’s situation in school. She noticed that her kid was seemingly thin yet it he eats a lot at home and she would even give him extra money to buy himself food in school. Her kid was physically fine except that he was slimmer compared to kiddies his age. One day her son went up to her and told her if she could just pack him lunch instead of giving him money because the bullies in his school would force him to give out his pocket money during recess time and would threaten to punch him if he didn’t comply. Right after this incident my friend transferred her son into a different school and although he’s going to be one of the new kids in school, at least she was somewhat relieved knowing that her son didn’t have to deal with those bullies again. But I asked her, do you think that there are no bullies in his new school? Do you think that you can ultimately stop this from happening when you transfer your son into a different school? Kids going to school is something all parents should face and these kinds of bullying cannot be stopped simply by transferring your kids from one school to another once a bully presented itself. There must be another way to stop them.

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Bullying is the act of willingly causing physical, emotional, verbal or mental harm to others. It could be through name-calling another person, physical assault such as hitting, kicking, biting, social exclusion where they intentionally reject another kid to shame them or anything that would hurt another individual. A bully can turn something like lunch time or going to the bus stop a living hell for other kids and this can leave a deep emotional scar that sometimes traumatize other youngsters. This is something we can avoid and prevent from happening and the moment we learn that our kids are being bullied, we should act on it and stop it from ever happening, not just to our kids but to other helpless children as well. Bullies usually attack new kids in school as they want to exert territory or they want to show who’s tough. It is important for us parents to take bullying seriously and not just let our kiddies handle it by themselves and tell them that it is part of growing up. Kids going to school should not be a tormenting act for them, but instead, it should be a safe and fun place where they can learn new things and meet new friends.

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In other parts of the world, bullying has contributed to many serious matters such as suicide, school shooting and kidnapping. Others take it to other forms such as posting indecent comments through social media or spreading out gossip on the Internet.

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The subject of bullying is a long and elaborate discussion and I do not want to bore you as you may have heard about this issue a million times. The bottom line here is that we should know how to detect once our kids are victims of such act. This happens a lot to new kids in school and the only thing that can prevent it from happening is that we have an open communication with our kiddies. Technology is our may weapon in order to keep track of our kids’ welfare. Giving them a cellphone is a good way to know where they are, letting them create their own social media accounts is also a great way to help them express how they feel and maybe gain more friends. By handing them smart phones or tablets, they can easily install useful apps where they can easily contact their families, their friends or perhaps share their emotions through their own personal blogs. Our kids have their own battles and we, as parents cannot always be there for them whenever they need us and all we can do is guide them and hope that they turn out to be responsible individuals. Let’s not be afraid about kids going to school as it is nothing but normal and with proper guidance and the use of available tools that can strengthen your bond with your kid, you can be sure that you’re raising a responsible child who will someday become a role model to others. For more information about bullying or how you can raise a child in the digital world using the most innovated technology to keep them safe, CLICK HERE now!

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Choosing the Right Toys for Your Kids

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It is never easy being a parent and perhaps one of the hardest tasks of being one is actually choosing what toys you should bring home to your kiddies. There are plenty of toys in the market today and for first time parents, this sometimes become a problem because they simply have no clue on what to give their kids. Some of these high-tech toys could be quite expensive, but the main focus is that whenever we buy something for our children, what’s should be in our minds is: “fun learning for kids.”

 

As technology progresses every day, we parents should know how to incorporate that in a good sense. Some would say that technology only puts gap amongst family members as they are more interested in playing with their mobile phones, their computer or other electronic gadgets, yes, this could be true in some cases but that is where we need know to know how we can use these innovations to bring us closer. Kids today learn faster compared to the previous generation as technology laid more resources for us. Creating an experience of fun learning for kids is not that hard and it is actually very exciting as it involves a lot of interaction between you and your kiddie. Choosing the right toys for your kids doesn’t need to be painful as all you need to do is buy learning games for kids that they can truly have fun with.

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One good example is the development of tablets available in the market today. This great find is made specifically for growing kiddies to help them develop their cerebral and motor skills. Growing children are more attracted to bright colors as the rods and cones in their eyes are not yet fully developed and with the help of these interactive tools with inviting colors and vibrancy, children will surely want to get their hands on there. These tablets have educational apps that have engaging colors that will truly captivate their eyes and their minds. And with its touch screen feature, their motor skills are improved as it is created to be an interactive tool where they can touch and hear what they are seeing using their hands. Some of these also offer tons of great applications for you to choose from, so buying learning games for kids is going to be a breeze.

 

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As a parent, I have a very busy schedule but I make sure that I have plenty of time for my kiddie and bonding with him is probably the most rewarding part of my day. Although I have work and other obligations, I make sure that I have the necessary tools to keep him happy, motivated and always learning. One effectively tool I found is researching on great learning apps for toddlers, preschoolers and older kiddies. Using my KiddieTAB, I found a number of great apps that I installed for my kids to enjoy like “ABC for Kids All Alphabet.” This application teaches our kids to memorize the alphabet and with real sounds and human pronunciations, it is almost as if they are learning inside the classroom. Another app that I personally like is iStoryBooks. It has a number of great selections from children’s books, bedtime stories, folk stories to classic storybooks. All stories have beautiful display of images and sometimes accompanied by enjoyable sound effects. So of your kid loves reading storybooks and seeing colorful images, then this one’s perfect for you. Educational Games for Kids is another informative app that will teach your children using different symbol, colorful images and sound recognition. With more than 4,000 users and 3,000 positive reviews, you can be sure that your kid will have a lot of fun with this app.

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The applications I mentioned are just some of the best you can find on Google Playstore and with the fast development of today’s technology, you can be sure that you will be seeing more of these educational apps for your kiddies.

 

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Although there are children who enjoy physical activities, it is very unlikely for them to get tired of playing with these fun gadgets as they always create new and exciting games and apps where they can learn, interact and develop their mental skills. Most of these apps contain vibrant and colorful images and videos that will surely get them hooked. Getting such devices is probably one of the best things you can do as a good parent for your children. This fun learning for kids will not only develop and enhance your kiddies’ progress, but it will also deliver a great way to bond with them.

There are many other ways on how you can help yourself be a great parent to your kiddie. Get tips, suggestions and valuable knowledge on how you can raise your kids in the digital age by CLICKING HERE.